Is it normal that a lesbian is attracted to penises?

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Great, I've got your attention.

Yep, I admit this sounds totally weird.
And in fact it is.

To make things clear:
I'm a lesbian since I can remember, so almost ever.
I'm a gold star lesbian, this means I don't have sexual experiences with the opposite gender.
(I made out with one, but there weren't any feelings, okay, he was just a random guy, but beside that, I never fell in love with one.)
I could never imagine to have a relationship with a guy, probably because of the ''get-fucked'' problem.
I could imagine a NON-sexual-relationship with a guy.
To cuddle, probably to kiss him but no sexual relationship.

The strange thing:
As the headline tells you, I'm not THAT afraid of penises, they also turn me on, especialy, when a guy jerks off, but I couldn't imagine to touch one, feel one, whatever.

So is it normal when a lesbian likes a penis untill it's ''far away''?

(I'm really not interested in new experiences or to change my life.
I'm REALLY happy to be the way I am, to like women instead of men.
And I'm happy to have a family and friends, who accept me the way I am.)

Is It Normal?
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  • PumpkinKate
    11 years ago | pl

    I can't really say if it's "normal" or not, even limited to the realm of non-hetero relationships... but I feel I'm a little bit similar, with a few key differences.

    I've always liked women, and likely always will. They are the gender that I feel "chemistry" for, the only gender I have ever fallen in love with completely, and the only gender I could ever see myself spending the rest of my life with. I get women, they make sense, and they turn me to jello when that feeling is in the air. I get none of this with men.

    Don't get me wrong, I like guys plenty- as friends, but I certainly can't really see myself happily cuddling or kissing / making out with one. I even dated a few guys, one for almost 4 months and that bit still felt very forced and awkward for me. I can't imagine a non-sexual relationship with a guy that isn't just "a buddy".

    That being said... I also love penises. Men have a pretty damn strong sexual draw to me, and I'm rather frequently craving sexual activity with men... but that's sort of where it ends. I want the sex, but not the relationship. I weirdly don't even like it when a guy I have sex with likes me for my personality instead of just my body. As you can imagine, this would lead to pretty empty sex and is rather horrible all around... so I don't really do it that often, but that urge is still there...

    I guess we're all just a little bit weird.

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  • Beareat
    6 years ago | pl

    Yes, totally normal. Every woman is generally built to want sex with men, obviously, to procreate. I'm sure alot of males (me included) would be happy to take care of that urge xD

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