it's normal to be sad when he doesn't want to be friends anymore, because it's almost like you valued the friendship more than he did! But it's important to give him his space, because what is right for him might be to find another girl who is both his best friend and lover. And being around you too much and missing you might keep him from finding someone who would honestly be a better match. It's like the story of the rat that has to let go of the smaller piece of cheese he's already holding in order to pick up the bigger piece of cheese he finds along the way. It's not that he wasn't truely friends with you, it's just that he needs to let go so he can find what's better for him.
Is it normal that a guy I turned down doesn't like me anymore?
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it's normal to be sad when he doesn't want to be friends anymore, because it's almost like you valued the friendship more than he did! But it's important to give him his space, because what is right for him might be to find another girl who is both his best friend and lover. And being around you too much and missing you might keep him from finding someone who would honestly be a better match. It's like the story of the rat that has to let go of the smaller piece of cheese he's already holding in order to pick up the bigger piece of cheese he finds along the way. It's not that he wasn't truely friends with you, it's just that he needs to let go so he can find what's better for him.