Is it normal that a guy don't want to get laid?

Hey everyone,
I am a 20 year old man and I had a girlfriend before but we broke up few month ago (we didn't have sex, she wasn't ready) and I never had sex.
Now my friends want me to get laid and they trying to hook me up with a girl (like one night stand thing) and I don't like to. Because I don't know why, but I only want to have sex with the girl that I love and no one else (Now there is no girl that I truly love).
This girl is quite cute and all, but I don't know if i should go for it or not. So what do you guys think, and is this normal in the first place?
Thank you in advance.

Is It Normal?
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  • yes i think is normal. sex is like the word love, its being use so much like its nothing special anymore. dam this society we live in :\

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  • You don't want to get laid? Don't get laid. Simple as that.

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  • Sounds like me. I suggests interacting with this girl. Who knows maybe she also thinks the same thing.

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  • You shouldn't do anything you don't want to do. You're going to get laid against your will. Don't do it. You're going to end up regretting it.

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  • Dear God, will you learn to speak English properly?

    It's normal to follow your own sexual desire.

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  • Not normal. There is no such thing as love. You are either attracted or you aren't.

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  • I don't think it's normal and your friends must be thinking the same.. Why not go for it? you get to know the girl and if you like her who knowd she might be the one? People wait and let the 'one' pass right by.Just saying..

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  • Dude i had the same problem my buddys tried to get me laid and i didnt do it and she thought i was gay for it and i jus straight up told her i was a virgin and she totally understood,mind u we had a few drinks and made out and what not but i didnt sleep with her...youll find it alot more satisfying when u wait,as will i...you wont have that 'guilty concsiense' feeling if u just give it away.

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  • Good for you, I think that is a good little tidbit to live by.

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  • Dont get laid

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  • thts sweet that you want to do it with the one you love and probably the the support your looking for here but i say hook up with the one night stand get the monkey off ya back learn how to fuck properly then when ya know what your doin find the one you love and give it to her hard, long and strong it takes a lot of pressure off when ya not fumbling round in the dark lookin for the entry.. but use protection nothin worse than injecting the one you do love with something she cant get rid of.

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  • My dad told me never to turn down a good thing. Don't do anything you don't want to do, but ask yourself if you're holding back because of the girl you broke up with. If it's really over between the two of you, don't make this a choice you look back on with regret.

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  • It's your life man and if it's not hurting you then why question yourself about it?

    Once you realize the difference between the virgin image and post-virgin reality of sex you'll wonder why people felt the need to push you one way or the other.

    It's like gambling. Some people wait until they take the big trip to Vegas and some people go throw dice on the corner.

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  • okay, if you are a guy and you don't even want to entertain the idea of getting laid by a hot chick...you're probably a homo. That's not bad. I'm a homo, well, i'm really BI, but that's me...explore sex with men you might like it and be more open. I think what is normal is to want it...If you don't want it, that's abnormal -

    That said, to choose to abstain because you want to have your first time be with someone you really care for is not only normal, but is TOTALLY FREAKIN AWESOME! Stick to your guns, just make sure you're not holding off for fear.

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