My thinking was that sacrificing a night of partying doesn't necessarily mean much, especially if this girl goes to a lot of parties. I've talked at length to girls at parties who I'm no more attracted to than average, and I wouldn't have imagined that to be abnormal. Adding alcohol to the mix complicates things even more, because even if this girl was attracted to him at the house party doesn't mean she's going to feel that way in the morning.
I'm with you to some extent: the likelihood is definitely higher than if she was some random girl because at least they know each other, but I still wouldn't run away with the idea that it was more likely than not. Assuming someone is into you is just setting yourself up for disappointment.
And maybe she is just being coy and trying to attract his attention, although it seems like a misguided attempt if she is.
Is it normal that a girl i'm into doesn't take effort in text
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My thinking was that sacrificing a night of partying doesn't necessarily mean much, especially if this girl goes to a lot of parties. I've talked at length to girls at parties who I'm no more attracted to than average, and I wouldn't have imagined that to be abnormal. Adding alcohol to the mix complicates things even more, because even if this girl was attracted to him at the house party doesn't mean she's going to feel that way in the morning.
I'm with you to some extent: the likelihood is definitely higher than if she was some random girl because at least they know each other, but I still wouldn't run away with the idea that it was more likely than not. Assuming someone is into you is just setting yourself up for disappointment.
And maybe she is just being coy and trying to attract his attention, although it seems like a misguided attempt if she is.