Many people think that being a little discouraging makes their suitor try harder. You'll often hear advice such as "Leave it a couple of days after the first date before you make contact" or "Treat them mean to keep them keen". While crude and manipulative, it often does play into relationships and turns them into a battle of wills. Maybe she's battling you.
You could try contacting her less and see whether that makes her contact you more. Be careful with this approach, though. I've known couples who were perfect for each other drift apart because they were both being hard-headed and ignoring the other more than the other ignored them.
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Many people think that being a little discouraging makes their suitor try harder. You'll often hear advice such as "Leave it a couple of days after the first date before you make contact" or "Treat them mean to keep them keen". While crude and manipulative, it often does play into relationships and turns them into a battle of wills. Maybe she's battling you.
You could try contacting her less and see whether that makes her contact you more. Be careful with this approach, though. I've known couples who were perfect for each other drift apart because they were both being hard-headed and ignoring the other more than the other ignored them.