I would love if people saying that this is normal would indicate why. I would love to understand why he thinks this is perfectly okay. A little more background: We are both college educated and both had our educations paid for by our parents. We did not graduate with loans because both of our parents worked their rears off to put us through school. They are his bio children.
I think he is a lazy and selfish piece of shit! I get the feeling that you work your tail off for your children, but he's not a very respectable man. I bet he's a narcissist!
Bingo! Total Narcissistic Personality Disorder at work and I think he might even be borderline personality disorder. Of course he thinks he is the most respectable man in the world and that I'm batshit crazy.
He could have a touch of BPD, but I'm not a professional, and I don't know him of course. Also I don't think any of what you have told me about is BPD. Borderline personality disorder isn't always the bugaboo that people make it out to be, but there certainly are some scary people with it. There are also some no so scary people with BPD out there too.
In what ways does he think, or say that you are batshit crazy. There's and old saying that, "crazy makes you crazy", meaning that if you spend enough time with toxic, dysfunctional people it will start to drive you crazy. One thing I have learned in the past few years is that Narcissists are actually attracted to and tend to attract people with BPD, however Narcissists also are drawn to people with C-PTSD, or Complex-Post Traumatic Stress disorder.
After I got out of an abusive relationship a little over a year ago I started reading, and researching about Narcissistic personality disorder as much as I could. I bought a book called Psychopath Free and I also started watching YouTube videos by a guy named Richard Grannon. I hope that helps a little bit. I also highly recommend the twelve step program Codependents Anonymous as well.
Is it normal that a father won't pay for college
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I would love if people saying that this is normal would indicate why. I would love to understand why he thinks this is perfectly okay. A little more background: We are both college educated and both had our educations paid for by our parents. We did not graduate with loans because both of our parents worked their rears off to put us through school. They are his bio children.
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I think he is a lazy and selfish piece of shit! I get the feeling that you work your tail off for your children, but he's not a very respectable man. I bet he's a narcissist!
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Bingo! Total Narcissistic Personality Disorder at work and I think he might even be borderline personality disorder. Of course he thinks he is the most respectable man in the world and that I'm batshit crazy.
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He could have a touch of BPD, but I'm not a professional, and I don't know him of course. Also I don't think any of what you have told me about is BPD. Borderline personality disorder isn't always the bugaboo that people make it out to be, but there certainly are some scary people with it. There are also some no so scary people with BPD out there too.
In what ways does he think, or say that you are batshit crazy. There's and old saying that, "crazy makes you crazy", meaning that if you spend enough time with toxic, dysfunctional people it will start to drive you crazy. One thing I have learned in the past few years is that Narcissists are actually attracted to and tend to attract people with BPD, however Narcissists also are drawn to people with C-PTSD, or Complex-Post Traumatic Stress disorder.
After I got out of an abusive relationship a little over a year ago I started reading, and researching about Narcissistic personality disorder as much as I could. I bought a book called Psychopath Free and I also started watching YouTube videos by a guy named Richard Grannon. I hope that helps a little bit. I also highly recommend the twelve step program Codependents Anonymous as well.
I'm a college student currently, and while this is still all just hypothetical for me, I can easily imagine refusing to pay for my kids' college.
What is it your kid studies?
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One is studying Psychology with the intent to work with addiction patients and the other wants to study business management.
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Well, those are practical fields at least. How old are they?