Seventeen year old kids getting married is a recipe for disaster. It can work in the longer-term if both are very mature, but it doesn't sound like that's the case here.
If two sexually mature siblings habitually share the same bed and one of them is male, I think it's pretty safe to assume that something sexual happened at least once.
Assuming that's in the past, you have to accept that you can't change history, and any attempt by you to emotionally separate your husband from his sister and the rest of his family is not likely to end well for you. His relationship with his sister is clearly very important to your husband. If you want to stay with him, you have to accept that, and concentrate on your relationship with your husband. In time, you may become much more important to him than she is, but you can't force him to change.
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Seventeen year old kids getting married is a recipe for disaster. It can work in the longer-term if both are very mature, but it doesn't sound like that's the case here.
If two sexually mature siblings habitually share the same bed and one of them is male, I think it's pretty safe to assume that something sexual happened at least once.
Assuming that's in the past, you have to accept that you can't change history, and any attempt by you to emotionally separate your husband from his sister and the rest of his family is not likely to end well for you. His relationship with his sister is clearly very important to your husband. If you want to stay with him, you have to accept that, and concentrate on your relationship with your husband. In time, you may become much more important to him than she is, but you can't force him to change.