Hey, here's an idea: Why not take a gun and blow your own brains out. Not only would I thoroughly enjoy that, you'd also make this world a better place.
A little harsh. The guy is clearly confused and unsure.
Aggressive and exclusionary language is what drives paedophiles to hide in the shadows together. What needs to be done is to say "we know you can't help your feelings, but they will be damaging, so let's help you have a healthy view."
As the guy appears to have no intent on harming the girl in any way, cut him some slack and start positively. The man is not a criminal until he commits a crime, just like everyone else.
This creep needs to be strung up by his balls. You sound like a reasonable medical professional. I'm obviously not in a reasonable frame of mind when it comes to pedophiles. I have a daughter. If I could meet this creep face to face I would do him some major bodily harm. I will never coddle a pedophile. Never. So this creep better pray that you get a hold of him "Doc" before I do. Good night.
Firstly, I am not a doctor, I am just seeing it through reasoned eyes.
Whilst I sympathize with your position, you must understand that the only way we can help these people to not commit a crime is not become passionate about the subject. In these sorts of situations people like I who have no children, and therefore don't understand what it means to have children, are actually the best people for this job.
I also think you don't understand what it is like to be attracted to young girls. It is actually really quite natural and uncontrollable that men are attracted to girls when they hit puberty. It's millions of years of evolution in the making. Unfortunately, something, somewhere in human history has gone wrong, and females are reaching puberty before they're biologically or even psychologically ready.
I will confess that when I was 19, I was in a short relationship with a 15 year old. I was on good terms with the parents, even after I decided to break it off, and we never engaged in any sexual activity, /despite/ her quite possibly immature desire to lose her virginity to me when she turned 16 (which, I would point out, I did not let happen).
How do you feel about homosexuality? Do these people choose to be sexually attracted to those of the same sex? Because I can assure you, those who are attracted to those physically too young to bear children but their biological clock has started ticking cannot help it.
I don't know where you live, but I can highly recommend watching the Channel 4 documentary "The Paedophile Next Door". Unfortunately, I assume due to public perception, the narrator has a tendency to spit out the word "paedophile", but generally the tone of the program is about coming to terms with the uncontrollability of these sexual attractions and talking with some who are sexually attracted to the legally underaged but continue to hold their desires back for the good of everyone.
I would add, however, that I believe sexual or romantic attraction to persons who have not even reached puberty to be a mental illness. I do not, however, believe it to be a mental illness after they start puberty but rather an unfortunate part of human condition that we just have to rein in.
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A little harsh. The guy is clearly confused and unsure.
Aggressive and exclusionary language is what drives paedophiles to hide in the shadows together. What needs to be done is to say "we know you can't help your feelings, but they will be damaging, so let's help you have a healthy view."
As the guy appears to have no intent on harming the girl in any way, cut him some slack and start positively. The man is not a criminal until he commits a crime, just like everyone else.
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Actually, this would make him a HEBEPHILE, NOT a PEDOPHILE!!!!!!
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Yeah I got it the first time.
I also replied the first time.
Actually, this would make him a hebephile, not a pedophile.
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In the clinical sense, yes, but clinicians don't have a monopoly on language.
The word originates in 1900, it encompassed any desire towards children, with hebephilia sprouting in 1955 to differentiate the forms.
This creep needs to be strung up by his balls. You sound like a reasonable medical professional. I'm obviously not in a reasonable frame of mind when it comes to pedophiles. I have a daughter. If I could meet this creep face to face I would do him some major bodily harm. I will never coddle a pedophile. Never. So this creep better pray that you get a hold of him "Doc" before I do. Good night.
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Firstly, I am not a doctor, I am just seeing it through reasoned eyes.
Whilst I sympathize with your position, you must understand that the only way we can help these people to not commit a crime is not become passionate about the subject. In these sorts of situations people like I who have no children, and therefore don't understand what it means to have children, are actually the best people for this job.
I also think you don't understand what it is like to be attracted to young girls. It is actually really quite natural and uncontrollable that men are attracted to girls when they hit puberty. It's millions of years of evolution in the making. Unfortunately, something, somewhere in human history has gone wrong, and females are reaching puberty before they're biologically or even psychologically ready.
I will confess that when I was 19, I was in a short relationship with a 15 year old. I was on good terms with the parents, even after I decided to break it off, and we never engaged in any sexual activity, /despite/ her quite possibly immature desire to lose her virginity to me when she turned 16 (which, I would point out, I did not let happen).
How do you feel about homosexuality? Do these people choose to be sexually attracted to those of the same sex? Because I can assure you, those who are attracted to those physically too young to bear children but their biological clock has started ticking cannot help it.
I don't know where you live, but I can highly recommend watching the Channel 4 documentary "The Paedophile Next Door". Unfortunately, I assume due to public perception, the narrator has a tendency to spit out the word "paedophile", but generally the tone of the program is about coming to terms with the uncontrollability of these sexual attractions and talking with some who are sexually attracted to the legally underaged but continue to hold their desires back for the good of everyone.
I would add, however, that I believe sexual or romantic attraction to persons who have not even reached puberty to be a mental illness. I do not, however, believe it to be a mental illness after they start puberty but rather an unfortunate part of human condition that we just have to rein in.