Is it normal that 19years old girl is virgin?

Hi. I'm 19. and i'm virgin. or i'm still virgin. probably thats because i'm well educated shy girl with good manners. in addition i'm pretty nice looking. i want to know what do you people think about it - is it normal that i'm virgin in 19 years? well actually i dont want to lose the virginity. i haven't yet meet a guy that really deserve my virginity. and i don't want to have first night with some rude asshole (sorry :)
so i'm virgin - is it normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • My 2 cents.

    There's no such thing as morals.
    And no one is ever going to deserve your virginity.

    Do what you feel is good for you, and experience things for yourself.

    Sex is fun exciting and can be very special between two lovers. And you would rather not have this? Your choice.

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  • fartz4pleasure sucks at trolling cause you can tell just by his name that hes a 12 year old kid with no hair under his armpits

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  • It depends where you are from. A girl at school had her second baby aged fifteen. Personally, I'd hope more people were like you.

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    • Your government's new education policy, apparently, is to make children stay at school till they're 18. That's just not living in the modern world, is it? 17-year-olds having to go to school; who's going to pick up their kids from primary?

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      • lol, true enough. I live up north where the problem is apparently worse. I lived on the same street as a 29 year old grandmother. They were a normal enough family but the phrase "29 year old grandmother" takes some getting used to.

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        • wow...just wow. It's a very similar situation here in Australia, just with less cameras in the city.

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  • Your self esteem is rather impressive. Most people who previously posted a story similar to this act sulky. As if they're embarrassed. Anyways, I think you're normal. I hope you lose your virginity to someone who really cares about you because you deserve it.

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  • It is a bit older then average but it is still within the normal range I would say you are really only getting to abnormal if your 22 years or older. And even then you shouldn't do anything you don't want to and it is not a big deal.

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  • I'm 18 years old and I've never even kissed a guy, so yeah, it's normal

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  • yes I think so

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  • It's kind of insulting that you think being well educated and having good manners has anything to do with your virginity. It also sounds like you already are perfectly fine with being a virgin, so you don't really need any reassurance.

    I'm 18 and a virgin. Never even kissed a guy. Whatever.

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  • Its normal.I think. I lost it when I was 16. In my opinion you are missing out. But not if you aren't comfortable with your partner or the situation the two of you are in. If I were you I find one of your guy friends that you get along with and trust and giveit a go. I don't know why so many people put such weight and emphasis on virginity. Its not like being a virgin changes who you are or really anything about you. Ur hymen isn't a part of ur brain for god sakes. But shit, morals, right? Stick to ur guns honey. It matters what YOU think. Its your body. Your decision. Do what makes you happy.

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  • safe your virginity for the right guy..wise choice.=) thats how it should be.dont rush for it

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  • It's more respectful to lose your virginity to someone that you care for and that person cares for you back.

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  • 100% normal. Wait for when you're ready. You'll love it all the more for standing by your morals.

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  • Im 54 and also a virgin... Starting to think a new approach is in order... Lately I've been grabbing random butts... But i thought the ladies liked that..

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    • Not really, especially if a random 54 year old does it.

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    • Dude I'd be careful what you're doin there or you may end up losing your virginity in the pen.

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  • Dont get obessed with whats normal and whats not this is both normal and unnormal since more and more lose their viginity before theyr 18 still that dosnt mean its a bad thing to still be a virgin at 19

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  • A lot of smart girls remain virgins til they marry, which can be anywhere from 18 til 25+. Even girls who aren't Christian (the stereotypical save-yourself-for-marriage crew) make that decision, because sex generally ruins relationships, and when you lose your virginity you can never get it back. You also generally have more respect for your lifetime partner and vice-versa. Don't do it until you feel it's right, and don't feel any pressure to.

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  • Well, sex is a lot of fun, but it's really not a big deal if you haven't done it yet. The important thing is to wait until you feel ready and comfortable, otherwise you won't enjoy it.

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