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Is it normal 7 years after breaking up with my partner I'm still not interested to any one, I did try once about 3 years a go but I ran a way during our first sexual contact. I tried to talk to some friends but every was laughing.
I Apology if my English isn't correct,
In my opinion it's not normal, then what does normal mean? What most people consider socially acceptable or what is usual?
Anyway, start slowly (if you want to start dating again) by being on dating sites. However if you have no desire to be in a relationship don't force yourself into one.
Thank you Kelili, I am 32 year old and now getting too worries, Yes of cause I want to start dating again, but than I seem to lost the interst after a couple of exchanging email, as I mentioned earlier I did tried once but it seem to me that the only thing he wanted to is just sex, that why I ran a way, after that I lost my trust, many people told me to just enjoy and have fun sex is sex, next day new person, but I can't, as a gay men and wanted to have sex only with a person that I trust, so am I wrong ? The reason that I said about sex a lots is because every time when they asking me to have sex and I said no, no one ever contact me again, so some thing wrong with me?
Some years ago I was in a complicated relationship and when it ended I had no desire to get in another but I still liked man. I got a boyfriend and we saw each other on weekends, we had sex - I had no feeling for him and we didn't talked much. It continued until I was ready for a real relationship and when the time came I no longer went to see him.
It's not a good advice, I admit but having sex just for having sex can be a beginning. If you feel that it's not for you then it's not for you.
I fear this is how I will be in the future. My first real relationship and love is coming to an end, I can feel it. We're on a break now, but I know what the final outcome will be. We both don't want to end it even though we know its bad. I'm scared I will never feel this way for anyone else.
Some people are like that. My dad hasn't been with anyone else since he divorced my mom and it's been 10 years.
Maybe you are just scared of a commitment after the first one didn't work out. It seems like you want to be with someone else eventually. If you don't that's ok too.