Is it normal taking my boyfriend to a strip club and enjoying it?

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My boyfriend and I went to a strip club this weekend after getting a bit drunk. I suggested the idea and it took him a while to come round to it. Even after saying it I thought to myself that I'd probably end up getting really jealous and drag him out of there if he started enjoying it too much, but I didn't. I really enjoyed it and even had a private lap dance all on my own without him. We also had a dance where he sat across the room facing me and had two strippers dance for us. It didn't make me jealous at all, even seeing some hot naked chick with her boobs in his face was fine with me. He looked like he was enjoying himself a lot and I didn't care, at all. I love him so much and we have a fantastic sex life but I'm starting to think do I care that much about him if seeing somebody that beautiful all over him didn't make me jealous. Am I normal being a heterosexual girl who loves taking her boyfriend to see strippers?

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  • amyjo84
    8 years ago | pl

    I've always been curious about having a threesome, I think it would be a really fun thing to do but kinda worried about jealousy aspect of it. But now I know I actually enjoyed seeing him getting turned on by another woman I think it would be fine, well it would be awesome! I don't have a clue how to find somebody else to come and have one with us though! He's an awesome person Legion and I'm lucky to have him :)

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  • Legion
    8 years ago | pl

    That makes you Awesome! he's a very lucky man to have a woman like you!

    something tells me he knows it too. He would be the dumbest man in the world to give up you.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago | pl

    Jealousy is for insecure people. I say that truthfulness is the key to any relationship!

    If you enjoyed the whole lap dance thing, maybe you would also enjoy a nice threesome with another girl and your boyfriend?

    I am not suggesting you go out and do it, i am just saying maybe you should speak to him about it and see how he feels?

    Enjoy the human body, that is what we were created for!

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    8 years ago | pl

    Yeah, I know quite a few women who can differentiate sexual entertainment from sexual intimacy, myself included. If he's the kind of guy who can go to those places and not have it compromise his sexual performance or faithfulness toward you, I see no reason not to kee going.

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    • amyjo84
      8 years ago | pl

      He's definitely faithful to me, while he was there he kept telling people that he was going to marry me, lol! may have been the drink talking but he's very sweet anyway. I think that's what it is with us the whole stripper thing and watching porn together just makes it a bit more exciting and fun but we spend a lot of time together and he always makes me feel special. I think I'm like you then and can differentiate between entertainment and intimacy. I'm just surprised at how I didn't get jealous at all! Maybe that's a good thing, jealousy sucks!

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