I'll try to make it clear, because you keep avoiding this particular part of my reasoning...
Answer this question:
ARE YOU HAVING SEXUAL OR PHYSICAL RELATIONS WITH YOUR "FRIEND"?
If the answer is "Yes", you are leading them on and not making it clear to them you are broken up, regardless of whether or not you have "said" it or "made it clear."
If the answer is "No", then I don't see the problem. Probably because the answer is "Yes." Is it not? You haven't denied it, you just keep not addressing that point.
Before you reply to this, go back to the question I put in all caps. Again, you don't have to admit or restate it here, but only you know the truth. I'll rephrase it in another context: Do you do more than you do with, say, your friends of the same sex who you are not attracted to, but have a FRIENDSHIP with? If the answer to that is "Yes", that's the end of the flow chart.
You want advice as to how to let them know it's over?
STOP EFFING THEM. I know you probably don't want to hear that, but that's the truth.
Maybe your question should be something like, how do you let them know the relationship is over but you still want to be friends while having benefits with them and not having them be attached? Is that what you really want to know?
IIN stuck in a relationship that not sure I want to break up?
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Hmm...
I'll try to make it clear, because you keep avoiding this particular part of my reasoning...
Answer this question:
ARE YOU HAVING SEXUAL OR PHYSICAL RELATIONS WITH YOUR "FRIEND"?
If the answer is "Yes", you are leading them on and not making it clear to them you are broken up, regardless of whether or not you have "said" it or "made it clear."
If the answer is "No", then I don't see the problem. Probably because the answer is "Yes." Is it not? You haven't denied it, you just keep not addressing that point.
Before you reply to this, go back to the question I put in all caps. Again, you don't have to admit or restate it here, but only you know the truth. I'll rephrase it in another context: Do you do more than you do with, say, your friends of the same sex who you are not attracted to, but have a FRIENDSHIP with? If the answer to that is "Yes", that's the end of the flow chart.
You want advice as to how to let them know it's over?
STOP EFFING THEM. I know you probably don't want to hear that, but that's the truth.
Maybe your question should be something like, how do you let them know the relationship is over but you still want to be friends while having benefits with them and not having them be attached? Is that what you really want to know?
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Ah, the sharp sword of wit, tempered with truth. You seem to have gotten to the bones of the matter.