I have explained I wanted to be friends and its very new. Yet they are already saying "I love you. you are the apple of my eye. I would die for you" and I am like "For the love of god. We went on 3 dates you cant already say you would die for me. I don't understand how that is humanly possible." I was willing to go for this the first time but I am beginning to realize I just don't like this situation. I mean yeah I go along with it but I would rather just be left alone. Like 2 weeks. If I minus the gaps of time after I we broke up in between dates.
Just two weeks!? That's really creepy..have you been friends for awhile for them to have such strong feelings for you? I could understand if it was a year dating them and to be in love but that just sounds obsessive.
Yeah it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all.
Yeah and its really irritating. I have had so many failed relationships so I been around the block a few times and I am so done with this bull shit. Well we were friends for 3 years with no attraction in fact I think they use to find me annoying.
Than suddenly I didn't see them for a year and they suddenly call up and like "Hey are you single" and I said "Yes why?" and they said "we should go out" and I like "Sure I guess".
Than after like 3 dates (a day each day) they act all head over heals "I would die for you" when they were not like this when we were friends.
It was more normal when we were friends. Now its like "Your so cute, I love you, I would do anything for you" and I am just getting really annoyed. Like it was a sudden change in personality after we started dating and I just thinking "What the fuck happened"?
So I am thinking I might go with the suggested solution and "Ignore" and save myself the trouble. I wanted a friend but that isn't happening so I give up.
They sound like they might be insecure, you could just be the last person they felt comfortable with. Yeah, I had a hard time moving on from my ex until I deleted his number. Ignoring them is probably the only solution.
For me at least all those feelings would come back when we would hangout in person, so a friendship wasnt possible.
IIN stuck in a relationship that not sure I want to break up?
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I have explained I wanted to be friends and its very new. Yet they are already saying "I love you. you are the apple of my eye. I would die for you" and I am like "For the love of god. We went on 3 dates you cant already say you would die for me. I don't understand how that is humanly possible." I was willing to go for this the first time but I am beginning to realize I just don't like this situation. I mean yeah I go along with it but I would rather just be left alone. Like 2 weeks. If I minus the gaps of time after I we broke up in between dates.
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Just two weeks!? That's really creepy..have you been friends for awhile for them to have such strong feelings for you? I could understand if it was a year dating them and to be in love but that just sounds obsessive.
Yeah it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all.
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Yeah and its really irritating. I have had so many failed relationships so I been around the block a few times and I am so done with this bull shit. Well we were friends for 3 years with no attraction in fact I think they use to find me annoying.
Than suddenly I didn't see them for a year and they suddenly call up and like "Hey are you single" and I said "Yes why?" and they said "we should go out" and I like "Sure I guess".
Than after like 3 dates (a day each day) they act all head over heals "I would die for you" when they were not like this when we were friends.
It was more normal when we were friends. Now its like "Your so cute, I love you, I would do anything for you" and I am just getting really annoyed. Like it was a sudden change in personality after we started dating and I just thinking "What the fuck happened"?
So I am thinking I might go with the suggested solution and "Ignore" and save myself the trouble. I wanted a friend but that isn't happening so I give up.
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They sound like they might be insecure, you could just be the last person they felt comfortable with. Yeah, I had a hard time moving on from my ex until I deleted his number. Ignoring them is probably the only solution.
For me at least all those feelings would come back when we would hangout in person, so a friendship wasnt possible.