I told my best friend that his ex-girlfriend told me and she said I was right because she'd heard the same thing from someone else. Also, I told him that I knew he was queer too and he told me that he was bisexual, not homosexual. So he confirmed it.
Yes, and maybe that someone else was told by his ex. You can't take someone else's word on whether or not someone has a certain sexual orientation.
If he confirmed it, then why didn't you say he was bisexual instead of mentioning he was homosexual?
He admitted to being bisexual, he told you. He also would of told his ex if she knew he was bisexual, and he must of told the person that told your friend he was bisexual, so he isn't exactly being hypocritical if he is infact telling people he is bisexual/coming out.
Generally, when several people state that someone they know personally is openly queer, they mean it.
To be fair, I said he was homosexual because I think he's not actually bi.
Actually, he is: he expects me to tell literally everyone, while he is still lying to some people about his own orientation (I once caught him saying that he isn't gay or bi)
In my experience (as a gay man) GENUINELY "bisexual" men are very few and far between.
Before people jump on me for saying that, I'm not saying they flat don't exist, there's 3.5 billion males in the world... somewhere, some of them can get hard for both men and women.
In my experience though, most men who be claiming "bi" are just gay and using "bi" as a kind of "half-out" to test the water. Whenever you hear a guy calling himself "bi", give it 6 months, a year tops...
Bisexual women though... they're everywhere. Far more common than we think.
IIN someone who is a closet gay as well tried to force me to come out?
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Well, I don't think taking his ex's word for it is a good thing to do.
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I told my best friend that his ex-girlfriend told me and she said I was right because she'd heard the same thing from someone else. Also, I told him that I knew he was queer too and he told me that he was bisexual, not homosexual. So he confirmed it.
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Yes, and maybe that someone else was told by his ex. You can't take someone else's word on whether or not someone has a certain sexual orientation.
If he confirmed it, then why didn't you say he was bisexual instead of mentioning he was homosexual?
He admitted to being bisexual, he told you. He also would of told his ex if she knew he was bisexual, and he must of told the person that told your friend he was bisexual, so he isn't exactly being hypocritical if he is infact telling people he is bisexual/coming out.
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Generally, when several people state that someone they know personally is openly queer, they mean it.
To be fair, I said he was homosexual because I think he's not actually bi.
Actually, he is: he expects me to tell literally everyone, while he is still lying to some people about his own orientation (I once caught him saying that he isn't gay or bi)
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In my experience (as a gay man) GENUINELY "bisexual" men are very few and far between.
Before people jump on me for saying that, I'm not saying they flat don't exist, there's 3.5 billion males in the world... somewhere, some of them can get hard for both men and women.
In my experience though, most men who be claiming "bi" are just gay and using "bi" as a kind of "half-out" to test the water. Whenever you hear a guy calling himself "bi", give it 6 months, a year tops...
Bisexual women though... they're everywhere. Far more common than we think.