Is it normal some crushes i want to keep as just crushes?

Sometimes there are people that are really lovable and I gain a little crush on them. But sometimes when I tell a friend or something about it they tell me I should act on it. But with some people I think it's better to just admire them from afar as opposed to actually being with them? Because I think the thought of them is nicer than actually being with them. I don't how to explain it…….. does anyone else do something similar to this tho?

Is It Normal?
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  • No-one is perfect, everyone has flaws but it seems that occasionally, before you get to know them well, know their flaws someone can appear perfect, beautiful, smart, funny and kind, despite knowing there is no perfect person. Sometimes it's nice to keep that image

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  • U r missing out on some good hearty potential sausage meat.

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  • The mutual crushes that haven't developed into a relationship have brought me the best of friends. Sometimes the person is so special and has so many things you love about them that you get that feeling of wanting to be close all the time... and even if they are attractive something is missing as far as romance goes... In that case keeping it platonic makes for a great friendship.

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  • Personal choice. I think it is normal.

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  • I get what you mean, I've liked lads and never told them before, just crushed on them. Because I don't think they'd feel the same or whatever. But if you really like him you should act on it, or if you just want to crush on him it's really up to you :)

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