First thing I would ask is "how does your fiancee and her get along?" If they are at least civil to each other, then if you call CPS then that could really derail any civility. Now on the other hand, if you know for a fact that there is reason to be concerned, and sadly being an "annoying spoiled princess" will not speed up any process to remove the child. The fact that she is also lax in her structure and discipline, there is a small chance on the lax in structure in that if the child gets out of the house without mom knowing, and say gets into traffic at 11:00 at night or something like that. Now if she is spending money on the child, well if she's buying the child junk food, fast food, or unless it's a knife or gun that may be hard to get CPS to investigate child mistreatment of some sort if there are no bruises or visible signs of a beating or malnutrition. So my suggestion- talk to your fiancee first. You may feel you are better for the child with more structure, discipline, and a no b.s. policy however, if the child's mom thinks that she is a better and more thorough lover to the baby daddy, does that mean she should be with him instead of you. Get your proof, your facts, your documentation no matter if it's pictures, or maybe a P.I. following her and documents her days. If she's leaving kid alone at home or putting stuff in a bottle of cup to induce sleep because she's in no mood to deal with child. Do you see where I'm going here? Good luck, think smart, and if you are going to play dirty, play it smart also.
iin should I call cps on fiance's exwife?
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First thing I would ask is "how does your fiancee and her get along?" If they are at least civil to each other, then if you call CPS then that could really derail any civility. Now on the other hand, if you know for a fact that there is reason to be concerned, and sadly being an "annoying spoiled princess" will not speed up any process to remove the child. The fact that she is also lax in her structure and discipline, there is a small chance on the lax in structure in that if the child gets out of the house without mom knowing, and say gets into traffic at 11:00 at night or something like that. Now if she is spending money on the child, well if she's buying the child junk food, fast food, or unless it's a knife or gun that may be hard to get CPS to investigate child mistreatment of some sort if there are no bruises or visible signs of a beating or malnutrition. So my suggestion- talk to your fiancee first. You may feel you are better for the child with more structure, discipline, and a no b.s. policy however, if the child's mom thinks that she is a better and more thorough lover to the baby daddy, does that mean she should be with him instead of you. Get your proof, your facts, your documentation no matter if it's pictures, or maybe a P.I. following her and documents her days. If she's leaving kid alone at home or putting stuff in a bottle of cup to induce sleep because she's in no mood to deal with child. Do you see where I'm going here? Good luck, think smart, and if you are going to play dirty, play it smart also.