Is it normal she's hating me ?

A few month ago I met this girl. She had a boyfriend so I didn't try anything.
2 and a 1/2 - 3 months ago, for some reason I started talking to her.
I learned that her bf broke up with her a week before so I started flirting with her and tried to spend more time with her.
I bumped into her several morning before class and one day invited her to grab a cup of tea.
We talked so much that we were almost late for our classes blahblah.
We met up after class and we spend the day together. We had a lot of fun, I invited her to a music festival and to spend a few days in Germany with me and she said yes to both.
She didn't have a lot of buses to go home so she decided to stay at my place for the night.
We drank a little and then we went to sleep. She told to sleep in the bed with her and that she was cold.
I did so but didn't make a move because I didn't want a one night stand.
I woke up during the night and saw that we were holding hands and that she was missing her pants.
In the morning, we were lying on the bed, looking into each other's eyes while I was caressing her hair.
The next day, we had an "appointment" to get tea.
She told her brother was in the bus with her as he had a test so I kidded around, telling her I was sad she didn't introduce us and asked her why, to which she replied she didn't
had to as there was nothing official between us.
We barely saw each other the following week.
I finally told her that I wanted to be with her and that she too wanted more. She got mad, cut my speech and started screaming that we were friends again and again, throwing a few
"you're not my kind" along the way and hasn't talk to me since then.
Is it normal that she's hating me because I assumed she wanted more too ?

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  • Maybe she is frustrated cause she wanted you to make a move that night

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  • Wow arnt the above comments so helpful? Anyways, I would just call/text her and tell her your sorry for going to fast and I thought you were ready to move on in our relationship.
    [this is comming from Somone who has never had a girlfriend]
    :)

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  • Try and restrain your sexual interest just for a minute and think about the emotional situation she is in.

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  • Maybe she still has feelings for the boy she dumped and she expected you to know better since she confinded in you. She needs time to get over the break up, this is not going to be easy for her so give her time. Right now you are probably just a friend to her, so keep it at that untill she says she is over her ex. Otherwise it appears you are rushing into things and being selfish.

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  • Lmao!

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  • So

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  • Maybe

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  • No

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  • yes

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