I don't particularly want to sleep with her, I guess I'm more the rational type than I am emotional. last time I assumed we were just friends which we were so I treated her as a regular friend regardless of being in love with her. She asked me to treat her as a friend and I did even though i found it very hard at the start as I was used to speaking a certain way with her but anyway... She was the one that made the sexual advances and I asked her a few times if she was certain this was what she wanted before taking over. After when I was back in my own country we discussed it a few times where i apologized for not keeping the boundary between us as I'm more rational than she is.
I value our friendship and wouldn't do anything to wreck it, including crossing the line with her.
That's also the reason for the post apart from sleeping with her then, I treat her as a friend and I don't understand why she refuses to see me now.
Is it normal she doesn't want to see me?
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I don't particularly want to sleep with her, I guess I'm more the rational type than I am emotional. last time I assumed we were just friends which we were so I treated her as a regular friend regardless of being in love with her. She asked me to treat her as a friend and I did even though i found it very hard at the start as I was used to speaking a certain way with her but anyway... She was the one that made the sexual advances and I asked her a few times if she was certain this was what she wanted before taking over. After when I was back in my own country we discussed it a few times where i apologized for not keeping the boundary between us as I'm more rational than she is.
I value our friendship and wouldn't do anything to wreck it, including crossing the line with her.
That's also the reason for the post apart from sleeping with her then, I treat her as a friend and I don't understand why she refuses to see me now.