It's normal. It's not particularly happy news, but it's normal. She's trying to distance herself from you. She might even be caught in that catch-22 of feeling too comfortable to leave but too unhappy to stay.
You're still in love with her, and if she isn't in love with you -- and sad to say, that's probably the case because people in love will bend heaven and earth to see one another -- she might feel uncomfortable around you. Do you touch her often when you see her or otherwise act boyfriend-ish? That would explain why she texts but doesn't want to visit.
It'd be nice if she gave you an explanation, and you can ask her outright for one, but you might be better off cooling the relationship (including the friendship) with her. You deserve someone who wants to be with you in person, and she deserves the distance she seems to need.
Is it normal she doesn't want to see me?
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It's normal. It's not particularly happy news, but it's normal. She's trying to distance herself from you. She might even be caught in that catch-22 of feeling too comfortable to leave but too unhappy to stay.
You're still in love with her, and if she isn't in love with you -- and sad to say, that's probably the case because people in love will bend heaven and earth to see one another -- she might feel uncomfortable around you. Do you touch her often when you see her or otherwise act boyfriend-ish? That would explain why she texts but doesn't want to visit.
It'd be nice if she gave you an explanation, and you can ask her outright for one, but you might be better off cooling the relationship (including the friendship) with her. You deserve someone who wants to be with you in person, and she deserves the distance she seems to need.