Is it normal sex still hurts after 7 months?

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So me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time 7 months ago (She lost her virginity to me). But sex still hurts her. It’s like she only lost it last week and is still getting used to it. We have sex maybe ones or twice a week but we always need to stop after about 5 minutes and I never finish.

So girls, how long did it take you to get 100% use to sex?

Thanks

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Do you use lube? Has she seen a doctor about the possibility of Vaginismus?
    <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus</a>

    Does your penis appear to be too large for her vaginal opening and her vaginal opening too tight?

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    • Jake19UK
      10 years ago

      We used to use lube but we had reason to believe it was causing thrush. It’s hard for her to see a doctor about this as she's still 18 and her mum would take her.

      I'll have a look into Vaginismus and tell my girlfriend about it. I don’t think I'm too big, but my girlfriend thinks I might be. But I've been with other girls before and it was never a problem.

      Thanks

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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago

    I'm sure it's different for everyone. I've heard of women who never stop feeling pain during sex. I don't know what the norm or better to say average is, but I'm sure it all depends.

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    • Jake19UK
      10 years ago

      Ya maybe,

      Thanks

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  • Naughtyboy666
    10 years ago

    clearly you cock is to big for her.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Yeah. If you have a particularly thick dick you might wanna try lube. Or get her on the pill so you can finish faster. Or try other things. See if shell give u a hand job. And don't just jam it in man. U gotta play with her a bit, loosen er up with your finger/s first. Chances are she is expecting pain so she's tensing up. Show her sex is a lot more than premature pain of insertion. There's a lot to be said for foreplay.

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  • bamanthehippy
    10 years ago

    Mine quit hurting after the second time. The truth is that it isn't supposed to hurt. Girls aren't even supposed to bleed. There's something inside us that is meant to be stretched. There's no such thing as too big, just inexperienced. You're just being too rough. I know all that fast hard sex looks appealing, but u have to start off soft and slow for both your sakes. U as the guy should try a bit more foreplay so she gets nice and wet before, that way u have natural and safe lube. U need to play with her, touch her, kiss her, all that, but especially touch, until she's wet. You'll both be hornier, she'll be wetter, you'll be harder, then go slow and soft and it will be enjoyable for both of you. Don't be afraid to rub a lol spit on ur dick if need be or have her suck u a lil. If that doesn't work then try a doctor

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  • White_October
    10 years ago

    Sounds like she has a very narrow pussy and doesn't get wet enough, your dick is just too big for her. But with lube it'll go better.

    Personally, I've never felt any pain. I always enjoyed sex ever since the first time.

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  • vickyendgame
    10 years ago

    you might nust be too big for her. that happens to me and my boyfriend if he's too rough. we've been together three years and sometimes he still hurts me

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  • kittykat9930
    10 years ago

    I wish I knew. I'm having the same problem with my partner. =/ With me it just depends on the size though and he's a bigger size. So far we've been together since 6 months!

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    Sometimes my dumps (the log girth) are too much and cause pain. Sometimes I just avoid that by sharting more of a liquid.

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