But you're fooling yourself if you say she's "mature for her age". That's just a cop-out that people use to justify having sex with minors.
I mean... how "mature" can she really be if she's still sucking off of mommy & daddy for her "income". No matter how worldly she may talk, she's never supported herself so she doesn't really know the truth about being an adult.
What she has is a child's vision of what adulthood should be, which may look mature but... it's just ideas without the wisdom of experience.
In other words keep it at friendship until she's 18. And yes by then she may have outgrown her feelings for you too... but that's OK. That's part of growing up and is natural.
IIN or wrong to talk to a 13 year old?
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But you're fooling yourself if you say she's "mature for her age". That's just a cop-out that people use to justify having sex with minors.
I mean... how "mature" can she really be if she's still sucking off of mommy & daddy for her "income". No matter how worldly she may talk, she's never supported herself so she doesn't really know the truth about being an adult.
What she has is a child's vision of what adulthood should be, which may look mature but... it's just ideas without the wisdom of experience.
In other words keep it at friendship until she's 18. And yes by then she may have outgrown her feelings for you too... but that's OK. That's part of growing up and is natural.