Is it normal or controlling that my boyfriend does not like me to do..

That is definitely not normal, he is trying to control your life and certain things that you do. He should accept you for who you are, don't let him control you. I could understand why he would be jealous of ex's, sometimes guy friends, but even then, its just a guy friend, you are bound to talk to other guys. He appears to be way too jealous if stuff like this happens on a regular basis. The facebook thing is ridiculous. Also, just because he is extremely religious does not meant that he can tell you what you can and cannot do because he doesn't do it. I'm not trying to discriminate against religious people, as I am one myself. Don't let him make up excuses to control you and say that he is not and that he's not doing anything wrong. You can either try to talk to him about it, re-evaluate the relationship you are in, or break up with him. Sorry if this comment is too harsh.