Is it normal or am i rubbish in bed?

The last two men I have slept with have been one night stands. On both occasions, the men were unable to achieve orgasm with me. This is after drinking quite alot, but still. I recently got out of a long term relationship (five years) and my ex never had a problem achieving orgasm with me (except on occasion after drinking, but even then that was normally only if we'd had sex already earlier in the evening). Whats going on? Am I just rubbish in bed? Can a girl be so rubbish in bed that men simply can't orgasm? Is it normal not to be able to ejaculate after heavy drinking, or is it my fault? Please comment.

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  • Guys have a problem reaching climax while drunk...at least that's my experience. No need to take it personally. I actually have this problem too but I dk if it's normal for a girl.

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  • some guys are much easier to get off than others. I definitely get "whiskey dick" when I've been drinking more than just a couple. gets very difficult to keep it up even though I'm super horny and enjoying everything that's happening. Harder for me to focus generally which makes it harder to cum. Also, my gf definitely seems to get "whiskey clit" as I like to call it but she's the first girl I've been with that seems to get it.

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