You're not a bad person for this. You can't control your instinctive response. It's like having a phobia. As long as you recognise that it is an extreme and somewhat unfair response (as you seem to since you posted this), then you can out-think this initial response with beautiful rationality.
Think - "They're fat. Under that fat they're just another person. Human. There's a brain in there, possibly capable of equal or far greater things than mine. We might get on brilliantly"
I probably wouldn't be attracted to an obese woman, but I don't feel disgust or anger when I see one. I wouldn't expect you to discard your personal preference when dating just to fulfil a political correct attitude society promotes. BUT I would think it wise to avoid being judgemental about their character, and ask yourself why it makes you angry?
Is it normal or am I just a bad person?
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You're not a bad person for this. You can't control your instinctive response. It's like having a phobia. As long as you recognise that it is an extreme and somewhat unfair response (as you seem to since you posted this), then you can out-think this initial response with beautiful rationality.
Think - "They're fat. Under that fat they're just another person. Human. There's a brain in there, possibly capable of equal or far greater things than mine. We might get on brilliantly"
I probably wouldn't be attracted to an obese woman, but I don't feel disgust or anger when I see one. I wouldn't expect you to discard your personal preference when dating just to fulfil a political correct attitude society promotes. BUT I would think it wise to avoid being judgemental about their character, and ask yourself why it makes you angry?
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Your right, now that I think about it this post was harsh.
Sorry if i offended anyone..
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It wasn't harsh. just brutally honest. This is the perfect site for that :)