Sounds like she has some trust issues with guys due to past relationships. It also sounds like she has a pretty high sex drive that you're not able to satisfy for her. Either bite the bullet and do it for her happiness, let her get a fuck buddy on the side, or end it so you two can find people more compatible.
If it is trust issues it has virtually nothing to do with you. People just take time and effort to move past them.
The real issue here is probably the difference in your sex drive. Sex might not matter to you, which is fine and really she should respect that if she cares for you. But for other people it is important. Sounds like she's been extremely active in the past so suddenly going into a completely dry relationship is probably maddening to her. You need to sit down and have a talk with her and tell her exactly how you feel about sex and see if she can accept it or not. Put the ball in her court.
Is it normal not wanting to have sex?
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Sounds like she has some trust issues with guys due to past relationships. It also sounds like she has a pretty high sex drive that you're not able to satisfy for her. Either bite the bullet and do it for her happiness, let her get a fuck buddy on the side, or end it so you two can find people more compatible.
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But why she doesnt trust me? I mean, I think that I have prooved that I dont see her as a sexual slave/toy
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If it is trust issues it has virtually nothing to do with you. People just take time and effort to move past them.
The real issue here is probably the difference in your sex drive. Sex might not matter to you, which is fine and really she should respect that if she cares for you. But for other people it is important. Sounds like she's been extremely active in the past so suddenly going into a completely dry relationship is probably maddening to her. You need to sit down and have a talk with her and tell her exactly how you feel about sex and see if she can accept it or not. Put the ball in her court.