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If someone try to date a woman in her 30s and then find out she's a virgin, do you think it's normal being upset and refusing to date her?
Well, hopefully she'll find someone else with whom she is much more compatible, and perhaps even another virgin like herself. Maybe you are doing her a favor by not being willing to date her?
A lot of people are actually virgins out there because they want to wait until marriage.
I waited really long on purpose. Had boyfriends but we didnt do it, I didnt feel ready. It was scary to me. Im a bit lame I guess, figured it'd hurt and well I wasnt so compatible with those guys either and for me it takes being very compatible not just having attraction or feelings. But yeah its a bit unusual these days when everyone sleeps with pretty much anyone with a heartbeat.
Virgin in her 30s, I am.
Do people think it's weird? Yes.
Have I ever dated anyone who was upset by it? No. I can normally tell if the person is a narcissistic a****** before they sniff me out.
I wouldnt help but wonder why. Id imagine something may be wrong with her like she's really crazy or wont put out.
It might put people off if they are just looking for casual sex because they know it will be an important moment for you and might cause you to get attached to them, which they probably want to avoid