"I think it is foolish to be an adult and have to rely on other people to support a standard of living that you cannot perpetuate on your own. "
Suck it up. Seriously. You think he is foot dragging as far as marrying you goes, yet YOU won't accept his help? Marriage is a partnership, two people that love, depend on, and support eachother. Why would any man in his right man marry a women that won't even let him help pay the bills for her? Believe it or not, many men like and enjoy being providers, and he has all of those qualities AND is willing to pay your bills?
Jesus H. Christ, women wonder why there are no good men left. When you catch a good fish, you don't throw it back, you tell your friends to back the hell off and run home with it. Get over your pride, realize that your life is great and that being an "independant woman" is a fucking illusion that leads most women into sadness and lonliness while the great men that they dumped have beautiful families and lives, be happy with what you have and quit letting your pride get in the way of your happiness. It's called compromise and it sounds like you haven't done much of it.
IIN not to know what to do with my life?
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"I think it is foolish to be an adult and have to rely on other people to support a standard of living that you cannot perpetuate on your own. "
Suck it up. Seriously. You think he is foot dragging as far as marrying you goes, yet YOU won't accept his help? Marriage is a partnership, two people that love, depend on, and support eachother. Why would any man in his right man marry a women that won't even let him help pay the bills for her? Believe it or not, many men like and enjoy being providers, and he has all of those qualities AND is willing to pay your bills?
Jesus H. Christ, women wonder why there are no good men left. When you catch a good fish, you don't throw it back, you tell your friends to back the hell off and run home with it. Get over your pride, realize that your life is great and that being an "independant woman" is a fucking illusion that leads most women into sadness and lonliness while the great men that they dumped have beautiful families and lives, be happy with what you have and quit letting your pride get in the way of your happiness. It's called compromise and it sounds like you haven't done much of it.