When we watched the film my boyfriend found it kind of sad, and wished the people with the disabilities in it, had partners to receive 'real' love.
But it got us talking for a while about taboo topics on disabilities.
That's when I asked him more about his disability, and turns out after his accident he still has some feeling 'down there'. However he can't get an erection from visual stimulus (seeing/imagining something that would turn him on), only from touch.
Then I waited the next night to ask him, when he was feeling much more happier, if he wanted to have sex. He said yes, but he seemed really nervous and unsure of himself. But I helped him relax(took a while) then the deed was done!
Oh Wow, that is just lovely! Bet it'll get easier and even more fun .... good on you for taking the initiative and I'm so glad my suggestion about the movie helped.
I had a shit day yesterday and today doesn't look like being much better, but your post has lifted my spirits - thanks so much for the update and I wish you both long and love & lust filled lives!
IIN not to know how to have intercourse with a disabled person?
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When we watched the film my boyfriend found it kind of sad, and wished the people with the disabilities in it, had partners to receive 'real' love.
But it got us talking for a while about taboo topics on disabilities.
That's when I asked him more about his disability, and turns out after his accident he still has some feeling 'down there'. However he can't get an erection from visual stimulus (seeing/imagining something that would turn him on), only from touch.
Then I waited the next night to ask him, when he was feeling much more happier, if he wanted to have sex. He said yes, but he seemed really nervous and unsure of himself. But I helped him relax(took a while) then the deed was done!
Now I feel even closer to him.
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Oh Wow, that is just lovely! Bet it'll get easier and even more fun .... good on you for taking the initiative and I'm so glad my suggestion about the movie helped.
I had a shit day yesterday and today doesn't look like being much better, but your post has lifted my spirits - thanks so much for the update and I wish you both long and love & lust filled lives!
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Thanks for all the advice.
Yeah I feel like I should have done this a while ago. But never too late now.
Sorry to hear that, well I'm glad my post made you happy.
And I wish that you will see better and happier days soon.