Sweetheart, every girl is different. A hymen can be any sort of shapes. I definitely suggest you watch this video on youtube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA (You can't POP your cherry (Hymen 101)- lacigreen) It's a really great video because it shows you just how that part of your body works. Not to mention, a women's hymen can get more relaxed if she uses tampons or masturbates regularly before her first time.
As for me, I didn't feel pain in my vagina when I first had sex. In reality, because I wasn't expecting all of the muscle contractions that take place, my back ended up hurting for a whole day after my first time. I attribute this to being tense and not relaxing. Especially if he has a large penis. You'll definitely want to take it nice and slow. OH! And use lots of lube if you're scared of it hurting.
Is it normal not to have any pain for your first time?
← View full post
Sweetheart, every girl is different. A hymen can be any sort of shapes. I definitely suggest you watch this video on youtube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA (You can't POP your cherry (Hymen 101)- lacigreen) It's a really great video because it shows you just how that part of your body works. Not to mention, a women's hymen can get more relaxed if she uses tampons or masturbates regularly before her first time.
As for me, I didn't feel pain in my vagina when I first had sex. In reality, because I wasn't expecting all of the muscle contractions that take place, my back ended up hurting for a whole day after my first time. I attribute this to being tense and not relaxing. Especially if he has a large penis. You'll definitely want to take it nice and slow. OH! And use lots of lube if you're scared of it hurting.