Is it normal not to go for it?

So I have the biggest crush on this one guy. It's super huge. Like the biggest one I've had ever. And today we were alone, lying down together. He was lying on my arm, so I couldn't get up! But my hand was positioned perfectly to grab at that soft spot. I playfully went for it and he half-heartedly tried to stop me. I got the feeling like he wouldn't mind if I did touch him. I was starting to get aroused and felt a rush...

So I finally pushed him away and got up, and we continued messing around like nothing happened.

It's kind of a should I have done it? question, but is it normal to pull away when something that you want (very badly) is there, in your reach?

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Based on 145 votes (112 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • Accjrb

    what do you mean his "soft spot"?

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    • Lolada

      His dick

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      • Gamzeee

        hahaha

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  • Sexyboy1996

    dick? you can touch mine all you want!

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  • LOL his soft spot

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    if it's meant to be it will happen again.

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  • peterr

    Suck him off, that would be normal and you would both like it.

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  • iloveyou24

    Girl!, You should have gone for it! He would have liked it & I know you would have too :)
    Don't be afraid to go for what you want. If you don't know if you want to do anything sexual yet, then maybe you should think about it. & Maybe one day be like "Wanna play 20 Q's?" or something and ask what would you do if I... & Then you will get your answers. but be playful about it & not too pushy! I'm sure he likes you, Go For It Next Time!

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  • georgienne

    I probably should, but I can't figure out what 'soft spot' this is. Guys have tones of them, aha.

    I think you were right to pull away. But it sounds like there could be something in store for the two of you. Don't wander too far from him. :)

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