Yeah, there's something else going on here. Maybe you are nervous? Or maybe too worried about what you think you should be feeling to actually enjoy it?
The other possibility is maybe you've masturbated so much or with so much, umm, vigor, that you just can't get the speed or sensation you need with a girl.
Or maybe it's something else entirely? Anyway, if you think it could be nerves or worry, then all you can do is give it time and let nature take it's course... it'll probably get better the more you do it.
If it's a speed/sensation issue, try some different positions. "Doggy-style" is good for speed, and since she won't be looking at you, it can help when being nervous, as well. Another good position for speed is to prop yourself up from missionary, and have her put her feet on your chest, but she needs to be fairly limber!
Anyway, I don't know if any of this will be helpful at all, but I hope so. Good luck!
Is it normal not to 'feel' any pleasure when having sex
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Yeah, there's something else going on here. Maybe you are nervous? Or maybe too worried about what you think you should be feeling to actually enjoy it?
The other possibility is maybe you've masturbated so much or with so much, umm, vigor, that you just can't get the speed or sensation you need with a girl.
Or maybe it's something else entirely? Anyway, if you think it could be nerves or worry, then all you can do is give it time and let nature take it's course... it'll probably get better the more you do it.
If it's a speed/sensation issue, try some different positions. "Doggy-style" is good for speed, and since she won't be looking at you, it can help when being nervous, as well. Another good position for speed is to prop yourself up from missionary, and have her put her feet on your chest, but she needs to be fairly limber!
Anyway, I don't know if any of this will be helpful at all, but I hope so. Good luck!