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Had sex for the first time there a month ago. I have done it since then also.
With the same girl but i never came.
We did it missionary each time but when Im in her i dont feel any thing. Its different when i masturbate but when we have sex i Dont feel anything that could lead to an orgasmI might just not be used to sex.
Opinions please cos this is annoying me and herself
I was like that my first time with a girl. The nerves were on full alert, and although I could feel I was inside her, it felt like a wet tubesock. It wasn't anything like I thought it would feel like haha. When she would orgasm it felt rougher, but that was really the only sensation I had from it. After an hour she got bored and tried to give me head, again it was different but wasn't anything to write home about. Finally after switching between mouth and hand I finished. It nearly killed me it was so strong haha, but I agree with YB. In my case I think it was nerves. And those take time and practice.
Yeah, there's something else going on here. Maybe you are nervous? Or maybe too worried about what you think you should be feeling to actually enjoy it?
The other possibility is maybe you've masturbated so much or with so much, umm, vigor, that you just can't get the speed or sensation you need with a girl.
Or maybe it's something else entirely? Anyway, if you think it could be nerves or worry, then all you can do is give it time and let nature take it's course... it'll probably get better the more you do it.
If it's a speed/sensation issue, try some different positions. "Doggy-style" is good for speed, and since she won't be looking at you, it can help when being nervous, as well. Another good position for speed is to prop yourself up from missionary, and have her put her feet on your chest, but she needs to be fairly limber!
Anyway, I don't know if any of this will be helpful at all, but I hope so. Good luck!