Is it normal not to ejaculate every time

When my gf and I are intimate I sometimes find it difficult to finish.
Other times not so much but every few times I guess I get a lot of thinks on my mind that prevent me from fully enjoying sex. Does anyone have pointers for me?
I'm willing to answer questions if it helps with your discussion. Thanks

Is It Normal?
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  • normal. you may be aroused and enjoying yourself but sometimes it just doesn't happen the way you thought it would.

    remember it's not about the climax but the path you take to get to it

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  • It helps to concentrate on your own pleasure. If that's your problem, then concentrate on how good it feels, and check out the situation lol ;) If yah know what I mean. Peek down once in a while, and look and your gfs boobs. I'm sure it'll help. I used to close my eyes and feel conservative, but I love looking at my bf.

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  • I hope you are really attracted to your girlfriend. When intimate with her, you need to focus on her body and your favorite body part of hers. I am lucky I think my girlfriend is the most beautiful ever. My opinion, not necessarily a fact.

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    • That's a great idea
      Thank you
      I usually try not to think, then I end up thinking about any arguments we has or recent complications we face.

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      • It is best you think about her body and body parts. I must warn you though, it can turn you into a minute man lol. You may get into it too much and boom, surprise ending lol. Good luck.

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