I think you're normal. Not everyone is dying to find love. I am a woman and love my independence. I honestly don't care if I ever meet someone special because I truly love being alone. You mentioned girls who act silly when they're wearing a ring and plan to get married. Well I've seen a lot of guys acting silly and really happy too. I think when you find the absolute right person that it's very normal to be happy and even act a little silly. Love can do that. If it happens to me I'm sure I would feel happy. The thing is, I feel happy right now and many people don't understand that. They think you "must have someone" in order to be happy. That's just not true. We can find happiness in other ways. I think you just haven't found the right girl yet. When you do, you just might feel like many other people who are in love. But if you never find it, so what? Don't let anyone make you feel strange just because you haven't fallen in love. Personally, I think there are far more important things than love. Like being in good health. I could find a great person who adores me, but what good is it if I end up blind or in a lot of pain for the rest of my life that no medicine can ever cure? To me, having your health is everything, not love. Love may come as a "close second", but to be pain-free and able to walk to my job every day is definitely more important than falling in love!!
But to be honest, I would never place love as a close second after health. The sucky thing about love is that it can trick you into thinking it is more important to you than your original dreams. And this is something I find sad, if someone sacrifices their plans, hobbies and aspirations for love, then something is very wrong.
Is it normal not to dream about love at all?
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I think you're normal. Not everyone is dying to find love. I am a woman and love my independence. I honestly don't care if I ever meet someone special because I truly love being alone. You mentioned girls who act silly when they're wearing a ring and plan to get married. Well I've seen a lot of guys acting silly and really happy too. I think when you find the absolute right person that it's very normal to be happy and even act a little silly. Love can do that. If it happens to me I'm sure I would feel happy. The thing is, I feel happy right now and many people don't understand that. They think you "must have someone" in order to be happy. That's just not true. We can find happiness in other ways. I think you just haven't found the right girl yet. When you do, you just might feel like many other people who are in love. But if you never find it, so what? Don't let anyone make you feel strange just because you haven't fallen in love. Personally, I think there are far more important things than love. Like being in good health. I could find a great person who adores me, but what good is it if I end up blind or in a lot of pain for the rest of my life that no medicine can ever cure? To me, having your health is everything, not love. Love may come as a "close second", but to be pain-free and able to walk to my job every day is definitely more important than falling in love!!
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Smart girl :)
But to be honest, I would never place love as a close second after health. The sucky thing about love is that it can trick you into thinking it is more important to you than your original dreams. And this is something I find sad, if someone sacrifices their plans, hobbies and aspirations for love, then something is very wrong.