Just chill out, he was just making sure he knows you, and hasn't got it wrong. You worried him.
Ok, now, I'm talking about my own personal thoughts here, so no-ones allowed to take offence, but here it is as I see it:
Girls can either see someone sexually, or not sexually, and its affected by the situation (a married guy is not seen sexually by most girls for example).
Every guy sees every girl sexually, regardless of either his or her circumstance. If it wasn't like this, we wouldn't bother coming on to any of you chicky babes. That's not to worry you, we're not all drooling idiots, we just don't have an off swatch for that side of us, as I said, if we did, it would permanently be in the off position, because its more trouble than its worth (I have spoken to several guys about this).
He just wanted to make sure you were both playing off the same sheet of music, rather than blatently disregarding your character. Perhaps you confided a little more than he felt you trusted him.
I doubt he meant to cause you fuss.
I still say, normal to feel hurt, just need to see it from his point of view. He may even feel hurt about your response...
Or, as someone's already said, maybe his wife wanted him to talk to you about it.
I think more likely he wanted to ensure, as I've already said, that you weren't acting out of character.
Is it normal not to be able to get over being hurt by a friend?
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Just chill out, he was just making sure he knows you, and hasn't got it wrong. You worried him.
Ok, now, I'm talking about my own personal thoughts here, so no-ones allowed to take offence, but here it is as I see it:
Girls can either see someone sexually, or not sexually, and its affected by the situation (a married guy is not seen sexually by most girls for example).
Every guy sees every girl sexually, regardless of either his or her circumstance. If it wasn't like this, we wouldn't bother coming on to any of you chicky babes. That's not to worry you, we're not all drooling idiots, we just don't have an off swatch for that side of us, as I said, if we did, it would permanently be in the off position, because its more trouble than its worth (I have spoken to several guys about this).
He just wanted to make sure you were both playing off the same sheet of music, rather than blatently disregarding your character. Perhaps you confided a little more than he felt you trusted him.
I doubt he meant to cause you fuss.
I still say, normal to feel hurt, just need to see it from his point of view. He may even feel hurt about your response...
Or, as someone's already said, maybe his wife wanted him to talk to you about it.
I think more likely he wanted to ensure, as I've already said, that you weren't acting out of character.