Is it normal not to be able to confess to your crush

So basically I have a crush whom I just can't confess my love. She has no social media accounts (weird) and I have reliable info that there is another one trying to ask her out. Am I normal? What should I do if I am normal, and what if I am not?

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  • Clunk42

    Sounds like you should ask her out using a method that doesn't involve social media before she's taken. Your mouth exists for a reason.

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    • Boojum

      Silly Clunker! 🙄

      Kids these days only know how to use their thumbs to "talk" to other kids.

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      • refrimeal

        OK Boomer

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      • leggs91200

        no shit, no shit.

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  • Mammal-lover

    Ask her out! I kinda wish I asked for the number of a guy I met yesterday. He was so cute and funny.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I haven't had a crush on anyone in forever, but I generally don't tell anyone about it.

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    • SunSnow

      I doubt...
      u are the crush of many.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Maybe, I dunno. I just like to come here, read what people post and hopefully give helpful suggestions.

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        • SunSnow

          You have those things which Attract peoples with high standards. Like owners and entrepreneurs. Honestly November Ladies rocks

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          • RoseIsabella

            Well, thank you! I hope I can get myself together, and improve myself.

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  • Nikclaire

    Why are so indian males on IIN??

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    • Boojum

      I doubt if the OP is Indian. They only ask about their aunties.

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      • Nikclaire

        Shhhhh boojum

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    • refrimeal

      I am not indian lol

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    • PleaseTalkToMe

      Cause they're desperate

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    • Clunk42

      I question the meaning of the question with which you're questioning OP.

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      • Nikclaire

        I'm not op

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        • Clunk42

          I know that. I'm wondering what you're trying to ask in your comment.

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          • LornaMae

            She seems to be commenting on the grammar of a couple of users lately.

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            • Clunk42

              But OP's grammar isn't even that bad. It's not good, but it's not that bad.

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  • PleaseTalkToMe

    If you're a dude, leave her the fuck alone. No one wants ya dong

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    • refrimeal

      *username checks out*

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  • FeralDefiance

    Totally normal to be afraid to say anything, but just go for it. It's fine if you're kinda awkward about it; awkward's part of the territory. Speaking from experience, you will regret saying nothing far more than you will regret asking her out.

    Still speaking from experience, also be mentally prepared for her response to go either way. Either she's into you, too, which is great, or she'd rather just stay friends, which is still really cool (even if it makes you feel like crap in the moment).

    And don't be too weirded out by the lack of social media accounts. Some people just don't like all that interactional baggage.

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  • SwickDinging

    It doesn't matter about her social media presence. Just talk to her in real life

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  • ellnell

    Yes. I think such things are terrifying, I even struggle to tell someone i'm dating that I like them even though I know they like me too.

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  • Chillypenguin178

    I don't see anything un-normal about this.

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  • DefunctLizard

    yes.

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