is it normal not to accept my husband's child

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    It's not the child's fault.

    The person you NEED to blame is your husband. He didn't HAVE to go cheat on you and have an affair but he did.

    And yes you say he didn't have an affair but... that's like taking a glass of chocolate milk and saying it's not chocolate... He dipped his wick into someone else's ink pot and knocked her up.

    But ... by spurning the child... you are punishing the ONE person who was innocent. Yes your feelings got hurt but the child didn't do that. Your cheating husband and his one-night-stand did that.

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    • sirunik
      8 years ago | pl

      It is sooo easy to tell dont blame the child, take it easy but it is really very tough... I am in the same situation. I love my husband so much but i hate that part of his past and i do my best to accept his daughter but i cant. Even thought about her makes me mad especially wehn we go for a walk me my husnand and she and she starts to talk about her mom. I hate her existance. she is my only problem with my husband. What makes me mad is that she gave a birthday gift her picture in frame many years ago and when we got married with my husband from now on he puts that picture in our living room. I dont know what to do so he took it from there, i dont want her picture or anything of my husband's past in my home. please give me an advice

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    • Lynxikat
      11 years ago | pl

      Agreed- you said it perfectly.

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