Because that is life. How many other people have had to pay for your actions? Truth of the matter is love is difficult. If love were easy; the world would be a better place that's for sure. Not having someone she can love and trust affects her. Your actions towards her affect not only you but your husband, her, your son, and those that just so happen to observe you. She is more than a mistake. She has thought's feelings, fears, likes, dislikes just like your son. It is not easy, but that is what makes it all worth it in the end. When you grow old and die you are not going to say, "I am glad I chose to shut out.... or not forgive... or was mean to..." You are going to be saying, "I wish I had treated.... better, I should have helped.... remember when I let... in and I didn't want to, I am so glad... came into my life."
is it normal not to accept my husband's child
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Because that is life. How many other people have had to pay for your actions? Truth of the matter is love is difficult. If love were easy; the world would be a better place that's for sure. Not having someone she can love and trust affects her. Your actions towards her affect not only you but your husband, her, your son, and those that just so happen to observe you. She is more than a mistake. She has thought's feelings, fears, likes, dislikes just like your son. It is not easy, but that is what makes it all worth it in the end. When you grow old and die you are not going to say, "I am glad I chose to shut out.... or not forgive... or was mean to..." You are going to be saying, "I wish I had treated.... better, I should have helped.... remember when I let... in and I didn't want to, I am so glad... came into my life."