I wouldn't expect a girl to give me a blowjob on the first date. But, I wouldn't lose respect for her either, if she did so. I believe that's entirely up to her, and it has nothing to do with how much respect she has for herself.
That said, if I liked her, I would be quite pleased if she did so, especially if she was very skilled at it. If I didn't like her, I wouldn't let her.
I will lose respect for a girl who purposefully withholds sex, in order to achieve some goal or serve some manipulative purpose, or who engages in sex because she feels it's some kind of duty on her part.
I go down on a girl because I enjoy doing so. And, it makes no difference if it's the first date or the 100th.
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I wouldn't expect a girl to give me a blowjob on the first date. But, I wouldn't lose respect for her either, if she did so. I believe that's entirely up to her, and it has nothing to do with how much respect she has for herself.
That said, if I liked her, I would be quite pleased if she did so, especially if she was very skilled at it. If I didn't like her, I wouldn't let her.
I will lose respect for a girl who purposefully withholds sex, in order to achieve some goal or serve some manipulative purpose, or who engages in sex because she feels it's some kind of duty on her part.
I go down on a girl because I enjoy doing so. And, it makes no difference if it's the first date or the 100th.