Is it normal not having the desire to have sex?

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I don't feel like I want a relationship or sex and I'm 32 yo.
People tried to convince me to date/have sex (with others) for years and I tried because they told me I was immature and not normal.

2 years ago I tried to have sex with someone I didn't like because I turned 30. I couldn't have sex because I was in pain and he complained that people should have sex for the first time when they are teens. He told me I kissed badly, I was immature, I didn't like him, I was naive. Then he told me I looked younger so I should tell to the next man I was 22 because I didn't have enough experience to be 30.
Then I felt tired for months and I only wanted to sleep.

I already didn't feel like having sex before because I didn't feel attraction. Now I don't want to date even if it's not normal because sex is really awful.

My male friend tells me I should date and have sex with someone and I said I can't because I don't have enough experience. I don't understand why he says I should because he sounds like he wants experienced women too.

I started to tell people who complains I don't date that men don't like me so they shut up.

English isn't my first language.

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Based on 19 votes (11 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Your friend sounds like a jackass. He should mind his own business.

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    4 years ago

    You just need to be fucked properly. Once you have a proper orgasm you will then like sex. Unless you have dome deficiency like low in vitamin D and that's why you have no sex drive and are tired.

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  • WTFlifeisconfusing
    4 years ago

    Yes it's normal!!! NOT everyone wants to have sex or enjoys it. Whatever YOU feel is NORMAL for you and that is ok. Your male friend sounds like a jerk. Don't have sex if you don't want to! DO what makes you happy. Don't worry about others. lookup demisexual or Asexual.

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    When a woman has a flat pear shaped butt and is 32 and a virgin and english isn't their first language, they tend to just come on IIN and complain, without listening to anyone or anything.

    It's normal.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    So you had sex once and it went bad so you lost the drive completely huh? Sad.

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    • WTFlifeisconfusing
      4 years ago

      She said she had no desire in the first place and ppl talked her into it and she didn't like it. What's sad, is ppl judging a woman for feeling how she feels. If she doesn't want sex that is NORMAL for her. Plus the guy sounds like a jerk, who would enjoy sex with a man like that!! Seriously.

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