Sounds like she just leans towards woman if you are in a functioning relationship with her. Most of the love in a relationship is emotional as it is, physically is just an added bonus. Take for instance if someone is attracted to someone else simply because of looks and nothing else, that relationship will probably fail within a short time(my eldest step-sister has like 4 or 5 kids with different fathers). And relationships based more around emotions will probably last a long time, because someones emotions don't change unless something traumatic happens.
Just because she is mostly turned on by woman, but is emotionally in love with you, doesn't mean much of anything. They say every woman is secretly bisexual, it's just that your's is blatantly open about it. Especially if she claims to be a lesbian, but is willing to throw that clean out the window for you. She's just sexually confused because what she loves and what she finds attractive are two different things. Kind of like married couples who have been together for a long time. They may ogle other people, but they know who they love.
My mother was married to a guy over 30 years ago. She had a kid with him(most successful kid in the family at that), but after a while they realized that they saw eachother as more of friends than lovers and went their separate ways. When he recently died a year or two ago it was devastating to her because they were closer than best friends because of their past experiences.
There is no bad way for this relationship to end, so just ride it out and see where it goes. At worst you make a lifelong friend, anything else is a lifepartner. You just might have to be creative when it comes to her sexual needs.
IIN normal I'm a guy but my girlfriend is a lesbian?
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Sounds like she just leans towards woman if you are in a functioning relationship with her. Most of the love in a relationship is emotional as it is, physically is just an added bonus. Take for instance if someone is attracted to someone else simply because of looks and nothing else, that relationship will probably fail within a short time(my eldest step-sister has like 4 or 5 kids with different fathers). And relationships based more around emotions will probably last a long time, because someones emotions don't change unless something traumatic happens.
Just because she is mostly turned on by woman, but is emotionally in love with you, doesn't mean much of anything. They say every woman is secretly bisexual, it's just that your's is blatantly open about it. Especially if she claims to be a lesbian, but is willing to throw that clean out the window for you. She's just sexually confused because what she loves and what she finds attractive are two different things. Kind of like married couples who have been together for a long time. They may ogle other people, but they know who they love.
My mother was married to a guy over 30 years ago. She had a kid with him(most successful kid in the family at that), but after a while they realized that they saw eachother as more of friends than lovers and went their separate ways. When he recently died a year or two ago it was devastating to her because they were closer than best friends because of their past experiences.
There is no bad way for this relationship to end, so just ride it out and see where it goes. At worst you make a lifelong friend, anything else is a lifepartner. You just might have to be creative when it comes to her sexual needs.