Is it normal no one knows?

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I met a girl on the internet a little over two years ago. We started going out and we currently are still together (made a year on Dec. 10, 2011). I live in New Jersey and she lives in New York, so we can't really see each other everyday. I've seen her multiple times only because I lived in New York before; therefore, I have family scattered all around NY. I see her about twice/three times each month. We're perfectly fine with our long distance relationship. But the twist is that no one knows we go out. Only our boyfriends. I havn't opened up to my friends that I fucking love girls & tits. But i tend to not check them out, and freak them out. I don't know what I should do. I don't know how to open up to anyone, including my very religious family. I just want to be happy. Someone help me??

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  • kit291
    12 years ago

    ok is it boyfriend or a guy who is just a friend and if it's a bf then that is cheating. you can't go out with 2 people. you've got to pick one. i don't mean to sound like your a really bad person but it is cheating and they don't disevre it. just talk to the person your closet to.

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  • mittens4444
    12 years ago

    This is very normal. If your boyfriends are okay with this, that's all that really matters.
    If you feel the need to open up about this to your friends or family, you should think it through on how you would start the conversation, what you would say, and pick the right time.
    I would suggest you start with your closest friends. Once you have told the friends you want to tell the most, I would move on to your closest family members, OR your least religious one(s) that you think may be able to understand more than the rest.
    Eventually, though, you may have to tell the rest of your family. Expect them to be freaked out, though, seeing as they are religious. It's normal if they seem or act disgusted with you, over time they should either be okay with the fact you are like this, or they will at least try to put it aside, and things will go back to normal.
    I wish you luck.(:

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  • jesusdiedlol
    12 years ago

    It's normal homosexuality is not just a form of sex, it's a form of love and it deserves our respect for that reason. Religion doesn't deserve a pot to piss in lol

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    • kit291
      12 years ago

      see i want to agree with you but i'm a christian and bi but my church exept me for who i am so it's not all religions.

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  • equanimity
    12 years ago

    Isn't that cheating? I think you should first talk to your boyfriend. Then explore your interest in women. When you have that sorted out for yourself, you could tell your family. Only when you are true to yourself will you make the decisions that are right for you.

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  • kyanviado
    12 years ago

    So let me get this straight, you are a girl with a boyfriend which you go out with a girl as well. As long as your boyfriend is fine with it than go for it. But otherwise I wouldn't

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