Is it normal my wife won't have sex with me?

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My wife refuses to have sexual relations with me. We've been married three years. She did before we were married. I think it's been maybe 10 times in the past 2 years. It doesn't matter how much housework I do, how much time I spend with her, take care of the kids, buy flowers, date nights, light candles, etc. She literally pushes me away and tells me she thinks i'm "using her" to "get my rocks off". Our relationship is good, but we did go through a rough patch a year ago. I've been in other long term relationships so I have a pretty good idea of other woman's sexual desires. Can someone change and "become" a-sexual? I know it's cliche that once you get married the sex is reduced, but this is ridiculous.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago | pl

    So why did she want to marry you if she did not actually want to be with you?

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  • coolnigga
    11 years ago | pl

    rape her or ko that bitch say (bitch get down on yo knees) and finish the job

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago | pl

    Time to check "irreconcilable differences".

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  • wigsplitz
    12 years ago | pl

    It's possible she has a hormonal imbalance or even depression. Perhaps you could suggest going to the doctor and/or to counseling. Just approach the subject as delicately as possible, she might be offended. Maybe suggest a couples counselor so that you are involved too so it doesn't seem like you're putting all the weight on her.

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  • darren3
    12 years ago | pl

    Do what needs to be done. Cheat.

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  • rayst
    12 years ago | pl

    Damn women! "using her" pffff!

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  • DanB
    12 years ago | pl

    Dude that's beat.

    Have a sit down conversation with her and explain how important it is to her and ask why it changed for her

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