Why? If I am expected to give her pleasure why should she not do the same for me. I think she has the same view as you, but I don't understand why you women think that is ok.
We have always had a good sex life and I have never been selfish. I always made sure she has plenty of attention and orgasms but recently she has got this new idea about restricting my sexual pleasure whilst increasing her own by 5 or 6 times. We have not had full sex now for nearly 2 weeks and I have not cum in all that time, yet every night I have given her at least one orgasm, and sometimes 2 or 3. She has also woken me up early and had me bring her to orgasm in the morning on about 4 or 5 occasions in that time. On Sunday we spent the afternoon with me giving her a message and several orgasms, she then tied my hands and teased me for about an hour but never let me cum. Afterwards she told me I need to wait until next weekend, then provided I am good all week we will make love. Please explain why some women (including my wife) think this is acceptable behaviour!
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Why? If I am expected to give her pleasure why should she not do the same for me. I think she has the same view as you, but I don't understand why you women think that is ok.
We have always had a good sex life and I have never been selfish. I always made sure she has plenty of attention and orgasms but recently she has got this new idea about restricting my sexual pleasure whilst increasing her own by 5 or 6 times. We have not had full sex now for nearly 2 weeks and I have not cum in all that time, yet every night I have given her at least one orgasm, and sometimes 2 or 3. She has also woken me up early and had me bring her to orgasm in the morning on about 4 or 5 occasions in that time. On Sunday we spent the afternoon with me giving her a message and several orgasms, she then tied my hands and teased me for about an hour but never let me cum. Afterwards she told me I need to wait until next weekend, then provided I am good all week we will make love. Please explain why some women (including my wife) think this is acceptable behaviour!