Is it normal my penis doesent get hard when im about to have sex

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Hey im JJ im 18 and ever since i was 15 and got sexually active with girls I've had a problem getting hard during foreplay. What sucks is that im 7 inches when im hard and i work with it pretty well but when im soft im like 3 inches... it hurts cause most girls I've been with want to give me a blowjob when i get them horny but i just don't get hard. I've tried jerking off before foreplay to get a bit of a head start but it doesn't work and ive heard of trying Viagra but i don't know if its right at my age cause i really just turned 18. Its embarrassing because i live in Manhattan so girls here that ive been with expect a hard dick and a big one at that. I'm puertorican an Cuban and ive talked to all friends face to face and online on what i should or can do even my doctor. I just really wish someone could help me figure out what to do cause it really hurts your courage and self esteem.

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    I used to have this problem, when I thought about having a boner alot.

    But when I stopped doing that and actually started enjoying the foreplay the problem went away.

    Enjoy the moment dear, the foreplay will comeon it's on. Stop worrying ^^.

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  • Dad
    11 years ago

    Quite normal.
    You are just worrying too much.
    Plus you probably masturbate to more exciting things, and now this girl is with you its not the same.

    Next time you get with some girl, say to yourself who cares if I get hard or not, I'm just going to enjoy this moment (basically the 'selfish' attitude) I'm pretty sure that you'll rise to the occasion.

    Also, if you're going to be with some girl, don't masturbate the night before! That's always a downer.

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  • 011assasin
    11 years ago

    Either you have Erectile Dysfunction or you just don't really care for sex.

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    • jackell13
      11 years ago

      lol i mean i get horny and that would suck if i do have erectile dysfunction

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  • patrick123
    9 years ago

    This is an Erectile Dysfunction issue the best way to solve the problem is through taking medicines on sexual impotency like Viagra or Caverta tablets that cures male impotency issue.

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  • melvaz0511
    10 years ago

    puerto ricans
    do
    it
    better.
    oh and..idk if it's normal.. cause you know, i have a P not a D.

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  • honeybeee
    11 years ago

    Maybe ur gay

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    • jackell13
      11 years ago

      ive had sex with 2 girls so i mean i dont think im gay -_- lol its just i have a problem with my dick getting hard we all do i just wanna know how to get it hard quick

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