This the fault of your parents not properly parenting you in my view.
Parents who are overly protective or place unreasonable conditions on their children in their home are not helping a child to grow up. in absolute contrast, as this 20yo shows, the young adult will remain dependent on the parents really forever.
The ONLY way for you to become an adult is to act like an adult.
YOU decide what you are doing and where you are going or who you are seeing. As long as this doesn't create any NORMAL issues on your family and in your home, then as an adult you make up your own mind and do what you like.
If you need or want your parents advice that's all good and happy. But otherwise they have ZERO say in restricting you from doing anything normally.
Note, I say 'normally' in the sense that you are not immaturely causing havoc to any others. You all must live in the house together respecting each other. Its not one way only.
If your parents cannot see this, then I suspect that you have much to learn yourself. Start by moving out.
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This the fault of your parents not properly parenting you in my view.
Parents who are overly protective or place unreasonable conditions on their children in their home are not helping a child to grow up. in absolute contrast, as this 20yo shows, the young adult will remain dependent on the parents really forever.
The ONLY way for you to become an adult is to act like an adult.
YOU decide what you are doing and where you are going or who you are seeing. As long as this doesn't create any NORMAL issues on your family and in your home, then as an adult you make up your own mind and do what you like.
If you need or want your parents advice that's all good and happy. But otherwise they have ZERO say in restricting you from doing anything normally.
Note, I say 'normally' in the sense that you are not immaturely causing havoc to any others. You all must live in the house together respecting each other. Its not one way only.
If your parents cannot see this, then I suspect that you have much to learn yourself. Start by moving out.