Ii feel for you because I was abused as a child. The thing with the dogs is only the tip of the iceberg. You need to take care of yourself and if she still verbally abuses you, stay away from her.
Thanks bro. I try to keep my distance from her, but my dad forces me and my younger sister to stay with her every fortnight for the weekend. It's only two days, but when I come back to my dads I feel very emotionally drained and depressed.
She is also starting to visit more due to her car getting fixed, which annoys me. I still love her though as a mum, I don't know why and I hate myself for it, and I'll start to miss her if I don't see her for a long time.
Don't hate yourself because you still love her. She's still your mother and gave you life. If she didn't care for you and nurture you, you'd have died. Have you ever tried telling her how you feel, or wouldn't she deal with it?
Yeah, I've actually told her once how I feel and that I don't like how she treats me only because she went too far on something and it made me really angry. She told me that shes not abusing me and that all parents do it, and she said I should thank her that I'm not on the streets. She always denies things and she always thinks she is right about everything.
My parents have done the same thing. My adoptive dog literally choked me and threw me into a wall on multiple occasions yet he still denies it, and my mom believes him.
IIN my mum thinks punching dogs is right?
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Ii feel for you because I was abused as a child. The thing with the dogs is only the tip of the iceberg. You need to take care of yourself and if she still verbally abuses you, stay away from her.
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Thanks bro. I try to keep my distance from her, but my dad forces me and my younger sister to stay with her every fortnight for the weekend. It's only two days, but when I come back to my dads I feel very emotionally drained and depressed.
She is also starting to visit more due to her car getting fixed, which annoys me. I still love her though as a mum, I don't know why and I hate myself for it, and I'll start to miss her if I don't see her for a long time.
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Don't hate yourself because you still love her. She's still your mother and gave you life. If she didn't care for you and nurture you, you'd have died. Have you ever tried telling her how you feel, or wouldn't she deal with it?
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Yeah, I've actually told her once how I feel and that I don't like how she treats me only because she went too far on something and it made me really angry. She told me that shes not abusing me and that all parents do it, and she said I should thank her that I'm not on the streets. She always denies things and she always thinks she is right about everything.
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My parents have done the same thing. My adoptive dog literally choked me and threw me into a wall on multiple occasions yet he still denies it, and my mom believes him.
How soon until you're 18? You need to get on you own asap. Good luck.