Yeah, your mother is a hard headed moron when it comes to dogs, and I suspect animals in general. She ought not to own a dog! If you have a dog of your own I highly recommend not letting your abusive, ignorant mother around the dog.
It's none of my business, but I'm curious as to whether or not your mother was abusive or neglectful with you as a child. I'd like to see her try that shut with a bobcat, she'd be sorry real soon.
Yeah, shes pretty bad with all animals generally, even cats. Shes had so many animals over the years, however she only keeps them for around a year then gives up on them. I remember one time my mum bought a baby conure bird, and because he would always like to sleep and not play much she gave him away because he was "to boring".
It's ok, and yeah my mum did kinda abuse me when I was young. I don't really want to go into it to much because I'm not really comfortable talking about it to anyone, she would hit me and my sister when we were around 5 years old and verbally yell and abuse us. I haven't lived with her for years now though, I live with my dad but I still see her and sometimes she still verbally abuses me.
Ii feel for you because I was abused as a child. The thing with the dogs is only the tip of the iceberg. You need to take care of yourself and if she still verbally abuses you, stay away from her.
Thanks bro. I try to keep my distance from her, but my dad forces me and my younger sister to stay with her every fortnight for the weekend. It's only two days, but when I come back to my dads I feel very emotionally drained and depressed.
She is also starting to visit more due to her car getting fixed, which annoys me. I still love her though as a mum, I don't know why and I hate myself for it, and I'll start to miss her if I don't see her for a long time.
Don't hate yourself because you still love her. She's still your mother and gave you life. If she didn't care for you and nurture you, you'd have died. Have you ever tried telling her how you feel, or wouldn't she deal with it?
Yeah, I've actually told her once how I feel and that I don't like how she treats me only because she went too far on something and it made me really angry. She told me that shes not abusing me and that all parents do it, and she said I should thank her that I'm not on the streets. She always denies things and she always thinks she is right about everything.
My parents have done the same thing. My adoptive dog literally choked me and threw me into a wall on multiple occasions yet he still denies it, and my mom believes him.
IIN my mum thinks punching dogs is right?
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Yeah, your mother is a hard headed moron when it comes to dogs, and I suspect animals in general. She ought not to own a dog! If you have a dog of your own I highly recommend not letting your abusive, ignorant mother around the dog.
It's none of my business, but I'm curious as to whether or not your mother was abusive or neglectful with you as a child. I'd like to see her try that shut with a bobcat, she'd be sorry real soon.
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Yeah, shes pretty bad with all animals generally, even cats. Shes had so many animals over the years, however she only keeps them for around a year then gives up on them. I remember one time my mum bought a baby conure bird, and because he would always like to sleep and not play much she gave him away because he was "to boring".
It's ok, and yeah my mum did kinda abuse me when I was young. I don't really want to go into it to much because I'm not really comfortable talking about it to anyone, she would hit me and my sister when we were around 5 years old and verbally yell and abuse us. I haven't lived with her for years now though, I live with my dad but I still see her and sometimes she still verbally abuses me.
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Ii feel for you because I was abused as a child. The thing with the dogs is only the tip of the iceberg. You need to take care of yourself and if she still verbally abuses you, stay away from her.
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Thanks bro. I try to keep my distance from her, but my dad forces me and my younger sister to stay with her every fortnight for the weekend. It's only two days, but when I come back to my dads I feel very emotionally drained and depressed.
She is also starting to visit more due to her car getting fixed, which annoys me. I still love her though as a mum, I don't know why and I hate myself for it, and I'll start to miss her if I don't see her for a long time.
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Don't hate yourself because you still love her. She's still your mother and gave you life. If she didn't care for you and nurture you, you'd have died. Have you ever tried telling her how you feel, or wouldn't she deal with it?
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Yeah, I've actually told her once how I feel and that I don't like how she treats me only because she went too far on something and it made me really angry. She told me that shes not abusing me and that all parents do it, and she said I should thank her that I'm not on the streets. She always denies things and she always thinks she is right about everything.
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My parents have done the same thing. My adoptive dog literally choked me and threw me into a wall on multiple occasions yet he still denies it, and my mom believes him.
How soon until you're 18? You need to get on you own asap. Good luck.