Is it normal my mom doesn’t let me be active b/c of my chest

Sports bras. Don't know anything about them apart from the obvious, but they may help.

Your mother seems to have some very old fashioned ideas.

Too busty? Take up the accordion instead.

Your mom is being an ass, or just very overprotective. Busty women can go to the gym, and do whatever active thing you want. Sports bras were invented for this purpose. Being active is very important for your health, in this case your mother is wrong.

just play girl.

I have to say what your mum is saying is extremely unhealthy both physically and mentally. First she's stopping you exercising, which some parents would have to bribe their kids to do. But then she's also trying to make you feel ashamed of your body, which is very damaging to your mental health. I'm don't mean to say that she's a bad person or anything, I don't know her, maybe she's actually really nice and she doesn't mean to intentionally say all this really bad stuff. But in this case I wouldn't pay any attention to her, you seem to have the right attitude to it and I'd carry on like that if I were you.

You do you. You do what is best for you. My mother's mother told her to stop swimming because it would make her shoulders too big and make her unappealing to men. My mom regretted her not competing in swimming for life, she could have been an olympian. I fucked with a chick that actually played baseball, not softball. Strong men respect strong women. Mental, physical, social. Make the best of your talents and work for yourself. If family and others don't support you, fuck them. Go get what you want as your best. The shitty naysayers will kind of flock around eventually.

I live in Holland and here is full of girls playing hockey. And going to the gym is just healthy. So dont see really where the logic is coming out from your mum. She sounds only protecting towards the fact that guys Will look at you, but instead of insulting she should keep her thoughts to herself or address it in another wat.

Gym makes boobs shrink anyways, not that they are a problem in the first place. She is coming from a well meaning place but is not correct here.

just say to yourself fuck you mum and wear your most revealing clothes e.g smallest tightest most transparent "sports" bra you can find and slightly see thru short leggings with no panties

I've seen this before, it's sad.
I don't have advise except get around it if you can.
Having a bosom doesn't make you a suspicious morals woman.
She means well, but.
Her restrictions are just as disrespectful of who you are as a young lady.

You don't have to go to the gym to play hockey.

So just how busty are you saying ? Some of us guys can use a visual if you don't mind. Besides it will help us give our opinion.