I'm bi. But a man, and I have a similar problem. If u wanna call it a problem, I do. I am sexually attracted to men, but romantically and physically attracted to women. I could never be in a romantic relationship with a man, maybe I just haven't met the right one, idk. But is also a problem for me in that most women expect monogamy. The need twisted up in their chromosomes. And being bi, it's something I have a very hard time abiding by. There is always gonna be that part of my sexuality that my GF just can't satisfy. No matter what she does. And I'm not one of those guys that gets off by letting another guy rail the love of my life. I love being bisexual when I'm single. It's great. Because you have twice the options, bit when I have a GF, everything gets extremely complicated. I normally have to completely ignore that side of myself to appease my GF or lie to her. And I've never been good at lying to the ones I love.
Yeah it's difficult allright. I just look at lesbian porn when I get urges to screw other women. But it makes sex awkward sometimes because I'm not really sexually attracted to males. I'm glad I'm not the only one like this but it sucks that other people have to deal with this problem too...
IIN my love is not the same as sexual attraction?
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I'm bi. But a man, and I have a similar problem. If u wanna call it a problem, I do. I am sexually attracted to men, but romantically and physically attracted to women. I could never be in a romantic relationship with a man, maybe I just haven't met the right one, idk. But is also a problem for me in that most women expect monogamy. The need twisted up in their chromosomes. And being bi, it's something I have a very hard time abiding by. There is always gonna be that part of my sexuality that my GF just can't satisfy. No matter what she does. And I'm not one of those guys that gets off by letting another guy rail the love of my life. I love being bisexual when I'm single. It's great. Because you have twice the options, bit when I have a GF, everything gets extremely complicated. I normally have to completely ignore that side of myself to appease my GF or lie to her. And I've never been good at lying to the ones I love.
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Yeah it's difficult allright. I just look at lesbian porn when I get urges to screw other women. But it makes sex awkward sometimes because I'm not really sexually attracted to males. I'm glad I'm not the only one like this but it sucks that other people have to deal with this problem too...